Yesterday I wrote A letter to the ex.
Then at 1:30am, after not talking to him or hearing from him for months, suddenly a message pops up on my phone from him.
“Hey, you alright? xx”
As if none of this ever happened. As if we are still part of eachother’s lives. As if I’d want to talk to him.
I didn’t reply. Just deleted it.
How strange is that?
I don’t want to patronize you – this is just a suggestion. Wouldn’t you feel safer/better with a new number? Hugs xxx
The problem with getting a new number would be that then everyone would have the wrong number. and I do quite a lot of volunteering etc where people would have my number and I’d need to find everyone who needed my new number! Thanks for your concern, if he contacts me again I am going to ring up the service provider and get his number blocked!! xxx
Okay, I get it. But calling the service provider sounds really good xxx
Well done to you for just deleting it and not replying. Stay strong xx
Thanks MMS. Luckily when I received the text I didn’t feel threatened by him anymore (which I often still do) so I have decided that if he contacts me again I will phone up to get his number blocked! xx
You are welcome!! And that sounds like a very good idea. xx
wow that is spooky, i’m so glad you ignored it!
Me too. Luckily when I received the text I did not feel threatened (as I often do) but instead just thought it was strange!! Next step is to call the service provider and get the number blocked – if he contacts me again! xx
good for you!
F**king good for you deleting it!! Well done
xox
Thanks
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Yeah that is quite scary!! As everyone else has said; good on you for deleting it! xx
Well done, you! Stay strong, Ellie!!
Thanks BB, I’m trying! xx